Kiss of Reality
To talk of illusions, are't they great? illusion or day dreaming help us to think of what we want to become in life. We literally see how life revolves us in that position . It's an entirely different world of pleasure, comfort and imagination. Most of our day dreaming or illusions make us more and more egocentric. The word ego means self . Hence by dreaming and visualization we become self-centered. We never realize that things we dream of can be achieved by us by programming ourselves to work for it . But somehow the pleasure of dreaming ourselves as someone important takes us away from the realistic approach to achieve that level of self-satisfaction and self-accomplishment.
幻想對(duì)于我們來說不美妙嗎?在我們一生中，是幻想，或者是說，是白日夢(mèng)，讓我們?nèi)ニ伎汲蔀槭裁礃拥娜?我們認(rèn)真的觀察我們的生命是循著怎樣的一條軌道.那時(shí)嚴(yán)格完全不同的世界，它充滿了愉悅輕松和創(chuàng)意.我們的大多數(shù)幻想和白日夢(mèng)會(huì)使得我們?cè)絹碓揭宰晕覟橹行?"EGO"這個(gè)詞的意思是自我.由于幻想，我們變得以自我為中心.我們從未有意識(shí)到，我們所夢(mèng)想的事情是可以通過我們周詳?shù)挠?jì)劃去實(shí)現(xiàn)的.但不知何故，幻想成為某個(gè)著名人物的愉悅，卻使我們遠(yuǎn)離了能夠與滿意和成就真實(shí)接觸的機(jī)會(huì).
This leads to an increase in the frustration levels of our mind . Why frustrations? This is because what we are, and what we dream of are totally different . We raise ourselves to a very high pedestal and we see that we are not able to live up to our expectations. And when this happens, we become mentally restless.
無邊際的幻想導(dǎo)致我們挫折感越來越強(qiáng).為什么會(huì)這樣?那是因?yàn)楝F(xiàn)實(shí)中的我們和幻想中的我們完全不同.我們把自己提到一個(gè)很高的層面，但實(shí)際上，我們根本不可能心如所愿.而每每想到這，我們便會(huì)焦慮不按.
The vital solution that will dissolve all our problems is to make up our minds to get realistic . This approach will make us come in terms with reality. And there is no better road to self-improvement rather than the path of reality. When you gauge yourself , you subconsciously make two columns in your mind. One consists of the things that you are good at ,and the other consists of the ares where you can improve. And believe it will boost us to work on our weak areas and strengthen them. Fortifying your weak areas will harness your conscience and improve you convert would be to must be. And when someting must happen, it always happens. This new you will improve you for the better and increase your levels of self-esteem.It will change your outlook to things.
要想解決所有的這些問題，我們必須讓自己變得現(xiàn)實(shí)些，這樣將使得我們接觸現(xiàn)實(shí).沒有比了解實(shí)際情況更能夠提高我們自己的了.當(dāng)你評(píng)價(jià)你自己的時(shí)候，在我們腦海中，會(huì)下意識(shí)的用兩種不同的方式.一種包括我們所擅長(zhǎng)的方面，另一種則是我們能夠有所改進(jìn)的.相信我這是一個(gè)好的開始，它將促使我們不斷的改進(jìn)完善自我.這就像給我們的良知套上了韁繩，使我們的不足的方面得到改善，提高我們的自信.有了自信，我們就會(huì)收獲我們想要的結(jié)果.當(dāng)某些事情要發(fā)生的時(shí)候，它總會(huì)發(fā)生的.嶄新的，充滿自信的我們又會(huì)促進(jìn)我們的發(fā)展，并且提高我們的自信心.這將會(huì)改變我們對(duì)事物的看法.
