Always Changing

人生處處是轉(zhuǎn)角

Please excuse me if I’m a little pensive today.

如果我今天有點郁郁寡歡,請原諒我。

Mark is leaving, and I’m feeling kind of sad.

馬克要走了,我感到有點難過。

You probably don’t know Mark, but you might be lucky enough to know someone just like him. He’s been the heart and soul of the office for a couple of year combining exemplary professional skills with a sweet nature and gentle disposition. He’s never been all that interested in getting credit for the terrific work he does. He just wants to do his job, and to do it superbly well.

你或許不認(rèn)識馬克,但如果你認(rèn)識像他那樣的人,那你可能走運了。好幾年來,他都是辦公室里的核心和靈魂人物,專業(yè)技能堪稱典范,態(tài)度和藹,性情溫柔。工作表現(xiàn)出色的他從不熱衷于爭風(fēng)邀功。他只想做他的工作,并出色地完成。

And now he’s moving on to an exciting new professional opportunity. It sounds like it could be the chance of a lifetime, and we’re genuinely, sincerely pleased for him. But that doesn’t make it any easier to say goodbye to a dear friend and trusted colleague.

而現(xiàn)在,他要向一份令人興奮的新職邁進(jìn)。聽起來是個一生難得的機會,我們也真心誠摯地替他高興。但那并沒使我們跟這么一位親愛的朋友、信任的同事告別來得容易一些。

Life has a way of throwing these curve balls at us. Just when we start to get comfortable with a person, a place or a situation, something comes along to alter the recipe. A terrific neighbor moves away. Someone in the family graduates. A child finds new love and loyalties through marriage. The family’s principle bread-winner is laid off.

生活用它自己的方式不斷向我們拋出曲線球。當(dāng)我們剛開始和某人融洽相處,或是適應(yīng)一個地方或一種境況時,某事就發(fā)生了,改變了一切。很好的鄰居要搬家了;家里的某個成員畢業(yè)了;孩子找到新歡,在婚姻殿堂里尋獲忠誠;家里養(yǎng)家糊口的主力軍被解雇了。

Our ability to cope with change and disruption determine to a great degree, our peace, happiness and contentment in life.

我們應(yīng)付變化以及混亂情況的能力很大程度上決定了我們生活的安寧、幸福和滿意度。

But how do we do that? Philosophers have considered the question for centurie and their responses have been varied. According to the author of the Biblical book of Ecclesiaste comfort can be found in remembering that “to every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven.” Kahlil Gibran urged his listeners to “let today embrace the past with remembrance, and the future with longing.”

但我們該怎么做?哲人們已經(jīng)思考這個問題好幾個世紀(jì)了,他們的回答各不相同。根據(jù)《圣經(jīng)?舊約全書?傳道書》的作者,人們可以通過記住“大千世界,萬事萬物皆有時”來獲得安慰。而卡里?紀(jì)伯倫也曾敦促他的聽眾去“讓今日用記憶擁抱昨日,用渴望擁抱未來”。

A friend of mine who works for the government is fond of reminding his fellow bureaucrats that “survivabi-lity depends upon adaptability.” And then there’s Chri the California surf-rat, who once told me that the answer to life’s problems can be summed up in four words: “Go with the flow.”

我一個在政府工作的朋友喜歡提醒他的那幫官僚同事們“生存取決于適應(yīng)性。”還有克里斯,加利福尼亞州的一位沖浪愛好者,他曾告訴我,生活中所有問題的答案都能歸為四個字——“隨遇而安”。